So Much More Than “A Skinny Black Girl”: Amanda Gorman Is The Face of The Future We So Desperately Need

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Yesterday, our country began a new chapter and Youth Poet Laureate Amanda Gordon embodied the passion and spirit our nation needs—no—requires and deserves. She proclaimed herself to be “a skinny black girl” in front of the nation and world, yet what the collective masses saw was so much more.

She is a light. 

She is a force. 

She owns her space.

She is a woman filled with grace, extreme intelligence, eloquence, passion, and fervor to help make America a better inclusive, unified, and kind country. 

Amanda Gorman gives me hope.  Hope for my own children and their future.

Her poise extends far beyond her 22 years. At almost 40, I find myself in awe of everything she is. She is what this country needs to bring real, lasting change. Not solely for the sake of race and gender inequality, but also as a role model for our daughters and sons. She exemplifies that smart is beautiful, words far more powerful than “likes” and vanity. She showcases her gift not to inflate the ego but to inspire. Her aspirations are noble and will not be without significant challenges. 

I hope to see more of our youth follow her example of humble, yet passionate civic engagement. I hope we parents encourage our sons and daughters to admire and follow in the footsteps of Amanda Gorman and others like her. We need to focus on a culture of intelligence, rationality, inclusion, integrity, and compassion. I hope to see our youth break away from the culture of vanity and self and embrace a culture of kindness. 

To Miss Amanda Gorman: You are so much more than a skinny black girl—you are an inspiration and a breath of fresh air. I (and the world) can’t wait to see what you will achieve. Thank you for being you and paving the way.

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Heather Goodsir
I grew up in Placentia and have lived in Orange County my entire life. I met my husband at a bar in Downtown Fullerton 10 years ago. He is also is an Orange County native, from Anaheim Hills. We were married in 2013 in Puerto Vallarta, in the smallest ceremony possible--ourselves, the photographer and the officiant. Our first son was born in 2014 and our (identical) twin boys were born in 2015. So yes, you are reading that correctly; we have 3 boys born 15 months apart. Life is crazy. I love it, but it's crazy. As such, I am a stay at home mommy and attempt to keep my sanity, keep my house clean, get healthy food on the table (most days!) and try to be the best mommy possible to my crazy, silly, rambunctious boys. Prior to having my kiddos, I was an avid yogi and enjoyed traveling. I try to work in as much reading, baking, cooking and crafty/creative projects as possible--which isn't much these days, but it's improving. I love a good debate, dinner parties, and spending time with friends and family. If music is on, chances are I'm singing and/or dancing. I love getting my hands dirty with projects around the house and hope to have a '58 Corvette and a '66 Nova in my garage someday. Oh, and I really love sleep and showers. Neither of which, it turns out, are compatible with motherhood. C'est la vie!