New Moms Really Need To Know These Ten Helpful Facts

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New Moms Really Need To Know These Ten Helpful Facts

You’ve read countless articles and books, and talked to other new moms. But you’re still wondering exactly what to expect and how you’re going to feel once your little one arrives. It’s different for everyone, which is why it’s so hard to get straight answers. Whether you’ve heard about these things before or this is the first time you’re reading about them – I’ve compiled this helpful list of the 10 things new moms really need to know!

 

#1 – You won’t feel like yourself

Research proves that you’re a completely different person after you give birth. You just had a baby and your life will never be the same, no wonder! You don’t have time for all things you used to do and you’re consumed by your little one. Although it may be hard to cope with the life changes at first, getting into a routine with your baby can help you get used to the new you. Amongst everything going on, don’t forget to take care of you. Just because you have a mini me to take care of doesn’t make you less important.

 

#2 – You may feel lonely

After all the “new baby” visitors leave and your partner goes back to work, it’s likely you’ll feel a bit lonely. There you are alone in your house everyday doing the same thing over and over. Although you have your little one to keep you company, it can feel very isolating especially if you’re not ready to take your baby out and about yet. Try to switch things up a bit by doing different activities with your baby – go for walks, use different toys during tummy time, FaceTime friends and family!

 

#3 – You’ll be exhausted

This is something everyone says to you. However, I personally didn’t realize the extent of this tiredness until I had my baby and I was actually getting no sleep. On top of the lack of sleep, you’re awake all day taking care of your little one and trying to stay on top of chores. But fear not mama, you will sleep again! Your little one won’t always need you in the middle of the night, so soak up all those nighttime cuddles now!

 

#4 – You may fight with your partner

This one is difficult, but true. You just had a baby, and you and your partner are trying to navigate the new routine together. You may not agree on everything, you’ll both be tired, and sometimes fights will happen. It’s important to remember to take a deep breath, and talk it out. You both love each other and this stress of the new baby is temporary. Soon you both will find your groove!

 

#5 – The dogs will annoy you

Now this one is something no one told me or prepared me for. Before baby, I loved my little fur babies and couldn’t get enough of them. But after baby it’s like a flip switched. I had a new life I was responsible and soon all the dog hair, little accidents, and barking bothered me like never before. I felt guilty that I felt this way towards the dogs, and it was hard to manage my emotions. Be sure to be open about it with your partner and ask for help when it comes to caring for them (or any other type of pet you may have in your home).

 

#6 – It goes by fast

This is another one that people tell you a lot, but you don’t realize it until you just had your baby a week ago and they’re already 4 months! Enjoy the time with your little one. Slow down, the chores can wait. Soak up the cuddles and the sweet baby smell. They won’t be little forever, but you still have plenty of time to continue to watch them grow and learn. Just because they’re not so tiny anymore doesn’t mean they’re not still your baby!

 

#7 – You will feel like yourself again

After baby you probably feel like a new you that you can barely recognize. Like we said above, having a baby is life changing and you’ll no doubt change with it. After some time passes and you get into a routine, you’ll start to feel like yourself again little by little. Make time to do things you enjoyed before having a baby, exercise, or do date nights with your partner. All these things can help you get out of your head and feel like yourself again!

 

#8 – You won’t be able to do everything

This one may be a hard pill to swallow. If you’re one of those people who’s always on the move, staying busy working, and keeping the house clean, then it may be hard once your little one is here to make time for everything. Your baby will take up most of your time, and when they’re not taking up your time you’ll just want to sleep! It’s okay if you can’t get everything done that you want to. Ask for help if you’re feeling overwhelmed and check out my article on “How I Keep a Clean Stress-Free House With a Newborn!”

 

#9 – It’s okay to cry

This is one of the most important things to know. Don’t hold those tears in. It’s your life and you can cry if you want to! Most of the time you’ll feel so much better after you let it out and have a good cry. And more importantly it’s okay to cry in front of others too! Don’t feel like you’re being weak. It’s okay to let your partner, family, and friends know that you’re feeling vulnerable and to ask for help.

 

#10 – New moms really need to know this is the best thing in the world

Despite all the tough things you’ll be going through, this really is the best thing that will happen to you! Having a baby is a blessing and watching them grow and smile for the first time is an amazing feeling.

 

Motherhood is the hardest job in the world, but also the best one. You go mama!

New Moms Really Need To Know These Ten Helpful Facts PIN